Ethan brought the slide rule grandpa had given him awhile back, as well as a framed picture of Grandpa, Stuart and newborn Ethan taken after church one Sunday in Provo when they visited for his cousin's baby blessing. It's been on Stuart's bedside table ever since.
Us nerds
have to stick together. Grandpa was a Civil Engineer – aka “Nerd” – which meant
he was super cool in my book. Grandpa and I had a lot of things in common.
I had an early passion for trains.
Mine were more of the Thomas the Train
version, and he got me all excited about showing me some trains he had on my
next trip up. They were special trains and I couldn’t wait, asking often when
we’d visit. He cautioned they weren’t to be played with, but I was so excited
when he showed me those trains. I still remember that box of trains – they’ve
been on top of the fridge in the garage because I watched him put them up there
10 years ago and they were still there on my last trip.
Grandpa liked whole wheat bread
with lots of “stuff” on for his sandwiches. Toast wasn’t done unless it was
black and cookies weren’t baked right unless they were crispy.
Grandpa once had all the grandkids come
into the family room at a Family Reunion and gave us empty quarter collection
books. Then he surprised us by bringing in a HUGE container full of quarters to
sort by state together in crazy chaos. He had saved those quarters for a loooong
time, just for that moment. When I see state quarters, I remember that day.
He took the boy cousins and I
fishing. On a drive back to Oregon from Utah with Kiana and I he drove us by a
house he had once lived in, in a very hilly town, and lots of bridges he talked
about. I can’t remember the town, but I do remember the pictures in my head.
We shared a love of math and
science. He gave me his old calculator and this slide rule (show) – he said,
“This got astronauts to the moon.”
I called Grandpa a few months ago
for information for a scholarship on backflow prevention. He geeked out a bit
telling stories about incidents, the city he’d worked for – it was epic nerd
conversation! I loved that.
Grandpa would listen to me play the
violin and he’d ask who I listened to. We both listened to classical music and
he’d tell me performers he liked.
He loved the History Channel, guns
and the NRA. He’d start a sentence with, “You know, I gotta tell ya…”
I don’t remember this actual event,
but for 17 years my dad has had this picture on his nightstand. (show) It’s a
3-generation picture of me, my dad and Grandpa, taken after church one Sunday.
Grandpa had a love of the gospel, family and simple things. One day, I hope
I’ll have a picture just like this on my nightstand.
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